I'm almost convinced that all the evils that stalk stem from a big lack of self esteem and we'll see how we can correct it.
students rigorous studies show that a rebellious child, unruly, disruptive, basically, is a child with low self-esteem so that when we are born, our concept of ourselves does not exist until around seven years, previously concept is an "I" group, ie the concept of self is linked to the father and mother. Well you're not to have two images, or because, especially in the past, the kind of education did not encourage precisely the positive features of the child ... this is denting in psychology.
Add to this insult, harsh environment, slights, criticisms, etc ... there comes a time that is lost sight of reality going to integrate these concepts ending nullifying or impairing the self which brings a sense of widespread failure in life, not try to solve the problems for what, if anything is going to help? Not aspire to anything better do something better for me? If I do not deserve! O ... more of what I have? I do not have such luck! When luck ... it works, but for this we have to start believing it.
vision who lacks self-esteem is disproportionate others: the looks very big, very important, even very powerful about yourself which feels inconsequential in others.
Let's see some flowers that can help us in this arduous task:
LARCH, the flower of choice for self-esteem when we are not able to start something new or not sufficiently confident in our forces for any reason. Dr. Bach says that, really, is the basic flower for all internal conflict it is essential to have good self-esteem to handle comfortably for life and, therefore, there are theories which indicate advise this flower as first and foremost in any treatment .
CERATO, for when we view others and carry out your response knowing what the right answer. CENTAURY
not to discuss or "face" nullifying ourselves or when we want to be too accommodating to our detriment. CRAB APPLE
when we are ashamed of ourselves or have a bad image, moreover, is not real. RED CHESTNUT
when we worry too much about the other ... and forget about ourselves. PINE
and guilt ... not allowing us to be worthy of anything, is an internal blockade, buried, hidden, which tremendously harmful in most cases not even know it exists! and certainly void any possibility of aspiring to a minimal improvement.
GORSE our state is so dull that no longer believe in anything, not even the smallest solution without realizing that, normally, life is much simpler than that fantasy tells us, often brings tomorrow if only the response far better than expected.
GENTIAN for when spreads discouragement, disillusionment with a setback. This is due to attachment material which is as easy as catching as a powerful magnet. We must be steadfast in isolating ourselves from time to time and internalize and connect with our essence as it is where we will find this haven of peace, that point of eternity that we will be abstracted from the daily madness, on the other hand, is only apparent tremendously passing: what now overwhelms us both, within a time or we will remember! Or see it was a magical process that leads to a destination incredibly better. Only
I refer to these flowers because, one way or another as any of them to who can claim all!
And for further information I suggest reading the latest book by Carlos de Vilanova " Discover and free of ego " which explains in detail how these harmful trends we socaban, stolen, canceled into believing we are not in Ultimately, the trends that seek to destroy our self esteem. Recognize and release of them is how we recover our true Self can take a look at the book on his blog
http://carlosdevilanova.blogspot.com/
HAPPY AND PROFITABLE READING!
